There's a particular kind of silence in the living rooms of people who spent their whole lives being told that silence was a virtue.
It arrived quietly, the way the most destabilizing realizations tend to.
I used to think something was wrong with me at parties.
There's a specific kind of silence that settles over a man in the first year or two after he retires.
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Some people don't talk about their feelings.
I apologize for everything.
I figured this out on a Tuesday.
The ability to sit in complete silence with another person without either of you reaching for a phone, a joke, or an exit signals a depth of trust that most adults never experience. The psychology behind comfortable silence reveals why it's so rare and so valuable.
It happened so slowly I almost didn't notice.
I turned 37 last year.
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