Most people don't realise that the moment a parent becomes a real person to their adult child isn't a confession or a long talk, it's an offhand sentence about something they wanted at twenty-three and didn't get, dropped into a conversation about something else entirely
The shift from parent-as-role to parent-as-person rarely arrives through the structured conversation everyone keeps trying to have. It arrives sideways, in a sentence so small it barely registers — and that's exactly why it works.