Most people don't realise the moment a long marriage actually deepens isn't a milestone or a holiday, it's the ordinary Tuesday when one of you finally stops performing the version the other one fell for
Long marriages don't deepen at anniversaries or milestones. They deepen on the ordinary Tuesday when one partner finally drops the curated version they were performing — and the other one chooses to stay anyway. Here's the psychology of why the unmasking moment matters more than any occasion.