I asked ChatGPT why reaching every goal still leaves me flat. The answer wasn’t the one I was expecting.
I typed it out plainly: "Based on everything you know about me, why does reaching my goals still leave me feeling flat?
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Mal James is a writer at Silicon Canals covering psychology, productivity, and the patterns that determine whether ambitious work compounds or burns out. His coverage draws from a teaching background, broad reading across behavioural science and business, and a working interest in what separates short-term effort from durable performance. He writes primarily for the Mind pillar with cross-coverage on the people inside the technology economy.
I typed it out plainly: "Based on everything you know about me, why does reaching my goals still leave me feeling flat?
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Here is the number that stopped me.
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