Why some adults apologise constantly, even when they have done nothing wrong
Constant apologies aren't a sign of humility—they're evidence that someone internalized the message that their existence itself was an imposition.
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Daniel Moran covers technology, digital life and culture at Silicon Canals. His reporting focuses on how people build modern systems and how those systems affect the way people work and live.
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