Why some friendships weaken when a romantic relationship begins
Time reallocation, dyadic withdrawal and changing support needs can weaken friendships after a romantic relationship begins, but no single explanation fits every friendship.
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Time reallocation, dyadic withdrawal and changing support needs can weaken friendships after a romantic relationship begins, but no single explanation fits every friendship.
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