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I’m not really a big fan of Quora. Well, I wasn’t. Until I discovered the secret superpowers it holds for my business, scouring for background information on various topics. As an expert in Dutch (startup) culture, I decided to take the plunge and share my knowledge on whatever pops up. One answer seems particular popular: how to do business with Dutch people? Let me share it with you for future reference.
1) How to schedule
In general, a business meeting with Dutch people goes like this after getting acquinted: Brief phone or email exchange to schedule a meeting. Meeting is always a coffee date for one hour.
2) On time
Make sure you finish in time, and be exactly on time. Not early, not late, although being stuck in traffic (moan and groan about it in great length and discuss the busy roads nowadays for at least two minutes) or having a train delay (discuss the quirks of the NS for approx. 5 minutes) are very valid excuses. Make sure to text, call and email (all three appreciated) if your are tardy.
3) Location, location
Then, location. If you want to sell, visit him or her. If you want to buy, invite them. If it’s a mutual business affair, meet half way. Usually this is taken literally. There’s actually a web service called Roudle make sure it is in fact half way.
Or otherwise pick a convenient location, people from Amsterdam tend to invite people to meet up when the other party is in town – which is common as people from outside cities are usually travelling a lot to the urban region for business.
4) Chit chat
At the coffee date, make sure to chit chat as long as it takes for the coffee to arrive. With our slow service in public places, it might take a while so have topics ready: traffic, weather, kids, holidays (either upcoming or past).
5) Have coffee (for real)
As soon as the coffee arrives (it’s a coffee date, so drink coffee. Tea is for British people, right? ;-)), immediately start by saying “Here’s why I invited you, what I wanted to discuss, I want to touch base with you on topic X”, or any similar form. Then explain your purposes, wait for feedback, discuss feedback and see what will be the response.
6) Response
“This sounds good.”
It meansyour are on fire. Make sure to follow up swiftly, because you have a deal. Set things up in a few days, within a week, with a contract. Or another form of agreement. Don’t wait or stall.
“Maybe this is interesting.”
This literally means maybe. Some if’s and but’s. You need to clear those out of the way. Find out what’s the holdup. Tick the boxes, and a maybe this changes to ‘sounds good’. Again, do it fast.
“Sounds interesting. I’ll have to check with my collegues, boss, business partner.”
It sounds good, it’s a maybe, but stil,l this person is looking for a way out. Make the deal more worthwhile. A discount, a bigger cut, better projections if milestones are met faster, they will help close the deal. If not offered, this person will follow up with ‘no’ in a few days time.
“No”
No means no, come up with another proposal or solution. Or, offer to help the other person to keep the relationship going for the future. Dutch people are loyal, once you drank coffee with someone you are a network connection.
7) Very straight forward
You see? Dutch people are VERY straight forward. Be upfront, to the point of rudeness. Don’t waste time (that’s actually considered rude), offer value (for money) and follow up quickly. Just say what you want. That’s all it takes.
8) A deal’s a deal
One more thing: a deal’s a deal. Even verbally, before signing, both legally and morally. If you back out, or change stuff ultra last-minute, you will certainly annoy the crap out of a Dutch person. Don’t ever do that. It will be a guaranteed deal breaker.
You see, Dutch people are actually not that hard to do business with. As long as you follow these easy steps, you have a guaranteed trusted business partner for life. Check out the full Quora post here. Do you agree or have a different experience? Leave a comment below.
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The Presidents Barack Obama of the United States and Mark Rutte of the Netherlands stands in front of Rembrandt’s The Night Watch (Dutch: De Nachtwacht) during a flying visit to the Rijksmuseum in Amsterdam, before attending a two-day security summit in The Hague, the Netherlands.
The ‘tea is an insult’-thingie is crap. If you want tea or a Coke or something other than coffee, that’s fine too! Just drink something.
True! Forgot to edit that. It was a bit too serious here, I’ve downplayed it in the comments on Quora. Drink something, but never stay empty handed. It makes people uncomfortable.
Indeed, the tea thing is weird. It really doesn’t make a difference 😉 but I am curious as to why you think that @remcojanssen:disqus. Did you experience weird looks when you asked for tea or something? 😉
As a rule of thumb, one should drink coffee. Because you invite someone for coffee – not tea. That’s my point. Besides that weird cultural thing, it was a bit of a joke. But then again, it wasn’t. These are the kind of cultural nuances that sometimes are hard to explain. In Dutch you would decline coffee by saying you already had more than enough. Which, usually, is the case after several meetings.
Ah in that case you are completely right, if taken literally. In English if we invite you for coffee its not literally for coffee, its for a drink, but we don’t invite you for a ‘drink’ because that could mean something else too – hence the word coffee.