The most painful thing about having parents who love you but don’t quite know you is that they may spend years describing a son they invented to people who may not meet the one you actually became.
The cousin called on a Tuesday.
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Daniel Moran is a writer at Silicon Canals covering technology, psychology, and culture. His work specialises in the patterns connecting how people build technology and how they live around it — the incentives that govern engineering decisions also govern lifestyle ones. He contributes across pillars, with the heaviest output in Mind and Technology.
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