The people in their 60s who seem to have drifted from close friendships weren’t cold or indifferent — they were often the emotional anchor in every room they were ever in, and anchors, by design, don’t get carried
An observation about friendship and later life: smaller circles in your sixties often reflect deliberate choice, not coldness. A look at what the research on ageing and friendship supports, what the 'anchor' reading adds, and why a flattering story still needs handling with care.